13 Steps To Becoming A Virtual Or Real Life Domme

Step 4
Security & Privacy

  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms Of Use or Service
  • Using Secure Cookies
  • Delete user data
  • Data leaks and breaches
  • Protection from Scammers & Fraudsters
  • Malware/Spyware
  • Hacking
  • Geo Blocking/Reginonal Blocking
  • Secure Trusted Billing Platforms

    Privacy -  Unfortunately, if privacy is a major concern, one may need to reconsider their plan. No matter what precautions you may take to maintain your privacy, there is always the risk of friends, family, and acquaintances finding you. Using a stage name and a fake persona is highly encouraged, but will not 100% guarantee safety or secrecy.

    Safety - There are also steps you need to take to avoid giving your identifying information to your followers and members. Stalking and harassment is a real thing. You want to 100% separate your online persona from your real life details.

    Address Privacy (for Wishlists and mailing out physical goods)

    Never use your actual mailing address on any wishlist you might create, even if the site claims to keep your address private. There are ways (delivery tracking and 3rd party sellers) that members can and will see your mailing address. Get a PO box or UPS box set up in your stage name(preferably one outside of your actual city/zip code) for any deliveries you may receive to protect your home address from being revealed.

    Also, use a PO box or UPS box as a return address if you mail out physical items to your members. Remember that if you ship items out directly from your house, your local zip code will be printed on the envelope or box. You'll need to drive to a drop off location outside of your actual city/zip code to mail items out safely.

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Develop A Business Plan

What services will you offer?
What rates will you charge?
How will your clients find you?

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Protect yourself, your clients
and your content. Keep identity and
financial accounts safe and secure.

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Domain name, Web Hosting, Logo Creation 
Custom Graphics, and Web Design. 

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Live Streaming Video Chat

Provide Live Streaming Pay Per Minute Video Chat. Implement your very own system
or utilize our platform. 
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Payment Processing

Accept Credit Cards, Bill To Phone, Online Checks, Debit Cards, Global Currencies, Bit Coin and More.

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Implement various forms of interaction. Host your own platform
and/or link up with existing sites. 
With like minded individuals. 

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Legitimize Your Reputation

There are many online that are posing to be someone or something they are not.
Ensuring potential clients is key.

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Website Search Engine Optimization,
Meta Tags, Page Titles, Back-links and more. 

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Make It Legal

Being a business owner has it's benefits.
Tax deductions, Travel Perks, Bank Loans
Understand the difference between a servicemark and a trademark. 

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Fetish Knowledge

Fetishes Are Becoming quite endless. Familiarize yourself with different fetishes and get a provide the fetishes that you most feel comfortable offering. 

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Gifts & Tributes

Wishlists, Gift-cards, Peer 2 Peer Payments
ie: google pay/paypal Proceed with caution.
Don't risk loosing your accounts.

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Social Media

Join fin domme, fem domme  circles
and immediatly begin interacting with targeted individuals who share the same interests.
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Time & Effort

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